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    Redarrow Married but looking for SEX? Shadishuda aur phir bhi partners ki talash?

    Forum ke dosto,

    Jaisa keh kai sex forums par hota hai, yahan par bhi mujhe bohot bachelor ladke aur ladkiyan najar aati hain. Lekin aik chota group mere jaise logon ka hai jinko married but looking kehte hain. Aisa kiyon hai? Mere chand sawalaat un sab members ke liye:

    1 - Aap shadishuda hokar bhi sex (zehni ya/aur jismaani) ki talaash mein kiyon?

    2 - Aap aakhir kar (ultimately) chahte kiya hain?

    3 - Aapki zindagi par iske asraat?

    4 - Kiya aapke partner ko pata hai aapki is aadat ke baare main?

    5 - Mustaqbil main kiya irade hain?



    Poocha hai to apna jawab bhi de deta hoon:

    Main pichle 13 saal se shadi shuda hoon. Meri wife ki jinsi khuwahishat mere muqable main bohot kam hain lekin main nai us se sirf sex ke liye to shaadi ki nahin. Doosre muamilaat main woh aik bohot achi aurat hai. Those mostly being that she is loyal and responsible, and takes great care of house and home. Pehle main samajhta tha keh mujh jaisa munjha hua khiladi usko tabdeel kar le ga (that I could ignite her fire, and unleash her passion). Lekin main is nateeje par pahuncha keh jo aag kudrati tor par kam hai usko ziyada nahi bhdka sakta. Waqt ke saath thodi hi behtari hui.

    Hum koi bilkul thande nahin, woh mera bohot acha khayal rakhti hai aur ham hafte main do teen martaba sex karte hain. Is se maira kaam chal jaata hai aur main bilkul mahroon to nahin, Lekin mere andar abhi bhi bohot kuch tushna hai. Hamesha feel karta tha keh something very integral is missing, and has been missing for some time.

    Meri kush ya bad qismati keh mera maazi sex ke hisaab se bohot zabardast aur shaandar raha hai. Ab issi waja se mehsoos hone laga main kiya miss kar raha hoon. Shaadi ke kuch saalon ke baad yeh feelings bohot strong ho gaeen aur mai inhe ignore karne ki position main nahi tha.

    Hamesha mujhe hi sex initiate karna padta hai is liye keh wife ka pakka nazariya hai keh firangi aazaad kiyal ladkiyan start karti hongi par yeh mashriqiyat ke khilaaf hai. Main chahta hoon keh woh bhi meri tarah super-horny yaani bohot ziyadah sex ki bhooki ho - aur mujhe kabhi kabhi nichod daale. what I'm really craving was to feel real desire on her part, and for her to initiate sex on her own. I wanted to see it in her clothing, and in her attitude, and in the way the way she carries herself. But she simply has no real desire, or charm. Uske liye yeh bas aik formality hai, it's just going through the motions for her and performing the act, just to get it over with. I'm left feeling empty and alone.

    Aik simple si misaal deta hoon: Main oral dene main super sexpert hoon aur usse bhi deta hoon. Jabse hum saath hain, main chahta tha keh woh isko experience karne ke baad khud bhi command le, interest le, mujhe bhi oral de. Lekin uske liye oral ka hona aur na hona bohot kam faraq padta hai. Woh simple sex se bohot bohot satisfied hai. Kabhi kabhi woh mujhe oral deti hai to aisa lagta hai zabardasti kar rahi hai. Maine usse samjhaya keh sex koi exchange nahin keh jo main karoon usse bhi karna pade ga, yeh to aik doosre ko mukammal pleasure dene ki aik fun activity hai. Really it's not sexy at all when a women forces it. She either loves doing it, or not. Toh usne oral karna band kardiya. I still give all the oral pleasure I can to her, as this helps her situation. I've always enjoyed being a giver in this regard.

    So maine realize kiya keh mujhe is ke liye apna ghar barbaad karne ke bajaye kuch aur karna pade ga. I realized that I need to make a change in order to be happy. It can be so much better than this. I need to find someone who shares my passion. Main ne is jazbe ko ignore karna chor dia aur affairs karta hoon is jazbe ko fulfil karne ke liye. Biwi ko pata nahin. Mustaqbil main aise hi jaari rakhoon ga. Sab kuch raazdaari se karta hoon. Aur is tarah sab apni apni jaga khush hain.

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    no experience but i hope

    k mujhe is thread se kaffi kam ki maloomat mill jayein gi

    thanx

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    Dear ap ka Thread acha laga mujy,, im not an experienced person in this field, but her kissi ka apna apna point of view hota hi,,,

    according to my point of view : sex movies dekhna, sex stories and all this kind of stuff aik alag bat hi,, per practically involve hona aik alag bat hi, sab say pehly to ye bat kaho ga... k hum ye to chahty hi k jis say hamari shadi ho wo aik susheel nari sachi sawitri ho,, per khud kia karty hi is pe koi dehan ni deta, her koi chahta hi k us k wife virgin ho, per kia us ny khud ko virgin rakha hi,, is pe koi dehan ni,, aur 2nd bat ye,, k ,,,,jab shadi say pehly hum hot kind of full manji hoi pimps or is type ke gilrs k sath sex kary hi to phir us ke aik adat ban jati hi, to hammy apni wife say b wohi demand hoti hi k wo b esa kary,, lakin agar kissi ny just apni wife say k sath he sex keya ho to im sure k us ke feeling totally different hoti hi,

    aur ab aty hi ap ke prob ke taraf,, to bhai,, aik mashraki larki most of time esy he hoti hi.. ab usy apny sath her hisab say kesy free karna hi ye ap pe depend karta hi..,,, agar wo abi tak itni open ni hoi ap k sath sex k mamly my to i dont think k is my us ke koi mistake hi.. hope k koi ap ke taraf say he ho prob .. means k ap ny shayad ussy us tariky say kabi samjaya he na ho k ap kia chahty ho..

    jesa k ap ny btaya hi k wo aik boht he achi BV hi ghar aur sab kuch ke bohot care karty hi.. to it means k wo ap ke b bohot he care karti ho ge.. to care may pasand aur naa pasand b aa jata hi.. to jab wo ap ke pasand ka kheyal rakhti hi .. to ap usy peyar say kabi samjao .. k mujy ye pasand hi aur ye ni.. tum esy karo esy ni.. my tum my ye feeling chahta hon aur yee ni.. aur samjany ka time.. wo aik husband behtar janta hi k kis time loga garam hy aur choot ke jay ,, right na?
    aur jesa k sab ny suna he ho ga k aurat mard ke pasli say bani hi.. zeyada zoor lagao gay to toot jay ge magar sedhi ni ho ge.. to isy peyar say aur aram aram say sedha keya jata hi,,,,

    to bhai.. ap aik aur try karo.. aur usy us k tarikay say samjao jis tariky ko wo samajna chahti hi.... aur jo bahir kar chuky ho usy bahir he rakho.. jesy ap janty he ho k bahi wali kabi ghar wali nai ban sakti.. isi tarha ghar wali kabi bahir wali jesy ban he ni sakti.....

    hop u got my point..

    aur agar kissi bat ka bura laga to im really for that.. its just a point of view

    hamesha khush raho

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    mere zehin me tu buhutse hal ha bewaafia k ilawa

    1) aap usko bata ke dusri shaadi karlo
    2) aap usse ye matter discuss karo bajai ke forums pe discuss karneke. is se tu yun lagta ha ke aap dono 13 saal saath guzaar kar bhi ajanbi ha
    3) aap apni desire kam krlo, diet control karke.
    4) aap usko vaccation pe lejao taake aap ki life dubara reignite hojai

    mera tu manna ha ke taali do haath se bajti ha. i believe that women give sex to get love and men give love to get sex. off course is me kuch aage peecha bhi hoga but that is the general rule for healthy men and women. i dont want to judge you but jis taran se tumne uska behavior describe kia ha you must be doing something wrong, not sex but maybe about other things. Aap zara in cheezo pe ghaur kare

    when was the last time
    1) you smiled at her for no reason?
    2) you kissed her for no reason?
    3) you brought her a gift for no reason?
    4) you took her to dinner for no reason?
    5) you helped her in the kitchen?
    6) you carried her to bed?
    7) you cooked something for her?
    8) you took a day off to take care of her when she was sick?
    9) you surprised her?
    10) you asked her about her dreams and what she wanted in life?

    how many times
    11) do you hug her, kiss her or show affection?
    12) do you flirt with her every day
    13) do you spend some time alone with her in a day (NOT sleeping/sex/food etc)?
    14) do you thank her in a day?
    15) do you call or msg her from work?
    16) have you danced together, raced together, played pc games together etc.?
    17) have you sung anything for her?
    18) have you combed her hair or given her a massage without any sex involved.
    19) have you sacrificed something for her?
    20) have you done something rewarding (painting, planting tree etc) together?
    21) have you praised her in front of others?
    22) have you gone on vacations alone?

    ye tu sirf kuch cheeze ha jiske zariye you can show love and care to your wife and in return she will blow your world away. that's the theory at least. matlab tum fuel daloge tu aag jalegina bhai. mene "i love you" nahi include kia list me because ye words meaningless ha. pyar actions se dikhtate ha, bolne wale tu kia kia bolte ha. atleast me tu actions ko hi dekhta hun, words alone are meaningless in this lie ridden world.

    finally if you cant love her the way any loyal woman deserves to be loved then you should spare her life. matlab wife kia hui naukrani/slave hi hogai ek tareeke.

    ab tum bura maan ke rone dhone na lag jana
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    detail jawabaat baad main doon ga lekin doston main yahan advice or apnee condition ke feedback ke liye post nahin kiya - aap log meri post misunderstand kar rahe hain aur unfortunately usse kissi aur simmat main le ja rahe hain.

    Sab apni apni situation ko jaante hain. Bura nahin man-na doston main marriage advise nahin mang raha. Mera marriage bohot hi zabardast chal raha hai

    Mera original post dekh lain, main to Shadishuda log jo meri position main hain, unse pooch raha hoon keh app bhi! to Kiyoon?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Good___Boy View Post
    mere zehin me tu buhutse hal ha bewaafia k ilawa...finally if you cant love her the way any loyal woman deserves to be loved then you should spare her life. matlab wife kia hui naukrani/slave hi hogai ek tareeke.

    ab tum bura maan ke rone dhone na lag jana

    I find it extremely insulting keh aap ne yeh kaise assume kar liya ke main apni biwi ko naukrani ya slave ki tarah samajhta ya treat karta hoon.

    good boy, kisi ke words to twist naheen karna chahiye. Main aur meri wife misaali joda hain. Respect, love, caring, romance dono taraf se hai. Aap ne jo itni list dee hai aksar karte hain sirf main nahin woh bhi. Sirf Aik matter hai sex ka -- woh aap assume na karen keh koi kasar chodi hui hai.

    har extramarital matter black and white bewafai nahin hota. Theoretical kehna or actual hone main bohot farq hota hai aur its unique with every single person and couple. Formulas nahin chalte har dafa.

    Kabhi socha hai, tum apni wife ko massage dena chahte ho or woh mana kar de... blakeh usse is se wahshat hoti ho kiyun keh uski soch hai keh yeh aik biwi ki duty hai? Phir aap usse convice karo... phir woh bohot aahista aahista maan jaye... phir woh usse accept kare... lekin woh uske liye aik caring gesture ho na keh sexual? Mere case mai hua... Mujhe disappointment to hui lekin surprise nahin. All humans have different reaction to different gestures.

    Kiya aap married hain? Kiya aap ne yeh sab kiya hai jo suggest kar rahe hain? Kiya aap us haal main hain jis main, main hoon?

    Bura mat man-na, abhi meri shadi nahin hui, par hogi to yeh karoon ga woh karoon se baat nahein bane gi

    All that said, main nahin jaanta keh aap shadishuda hain ya nahin? Lekin main ne aksar bachelors ko hi itni legendary bate karte hue suna hai. Real life main scene or reactions mukhtalif hote hain.

    Maine yeh thread doosron ka haal aur unka is haal ke natege main action puchne keh liye ki-- naake apni marriage analysis ke liye - no offence to anyone, it takes one to know one. Without experiencing the same, there is little credence to what you suggest as counsel as its no easy matter.

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    wohi hua jiska ka mujhe khadsha tha.
    ha me married nahi but logo me tu betha hi hun. aura pak me masjid se le ke office me tu har jaga yehi topic hota ha. aur jab females ho tu phr tu zaahir ha. ditto yehi masla hota ha wife thandi ha aur me garam ya shauhar thanda ha aur me garam.

    1) agar feedback nahin chaihye apne bare me tu aap apni kahani na likho na, general baat likho.
    question ke jawab likho aur phr sirf jinhe jawab dena hoga wohi jawab hi aainge.
    agar uski shortcommings batara rahe ho tu apni bhi batao! aur agar apni kami nahi bata sakte tu sirf apna masla hi likho.
    yani ye bolo ke i have high sex drive instead of telling us that your wife is very cold ya apne kia kia nahi kia uske liye!
    Im not satisfied with her instead of she is not satisfying me!
    Im want oral lekin meri bivi ko nai pasand instead of 'me usko oral deta hun par wo mujhe nahi deti aur mene use buhut samjhaya etc etc'!
    etc.
    left wali me aap apni problem bata rahe ho jabke right wale me aap kisi aur ke uper responsibility shift kar rehe ho joke bari khatarnak psyche ha.

    2) isi tarhan agar koi larki bhi aati apne shauhar ki burayan karti aur one sided story lati tu me usko bhi isi tarhan ka jawab liktha.
    tu ye na samajhna ke im biased or whatever.

    i hope aap samaj gaye hoge me kya keh raha hun. if you demand objectivity and fairness, begin from yourself.
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    Abhi tuk jitni bhi behus padhi hai, uss ne tu mera dimagh hi hila ker rukh diya hai.

    Apny comments kissi aur din fresh hu ker likhny ki koshish karunga.

    Tahum yea zarorkahunga, ke shadi shuda joron ke liey aik dilchusp thread hai, unhen bahut kuch soochny aur samjhny ka mauqa dey rahi hai.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Good___Boy View Post
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    1) aap usko bata ke dusri shaadi karlo
    2) aap usse ye matter discuss karo bajai ke forums pe discuss karneke. is se tu yun lagta ha ke aap dono 13 saal saath guzaar kar bhi ajanbi ha
    3) aap apni desire kam krlo, diet control karke.
    4) aap usko vaccation pe lejao taake aap ki life dubara reignite hojai
    Dear Good Boy Ager App Thread Ko sahi Sy Read Ker Lety Tu I Think Tumhara Itna Time Waste Hony Sy Bach Jata
    Dear Mr Erict Ny App Sy Ya Kissi Sy Koi Mashwara Nhn Manga Hai Sirf Kuch Sawal Poochy Hn Jo Bhut Hi Enteresting Hn
    Real Life And marrige life mein in ki bhut ahmiyat hai

    app ka kaam otna tha ky ager app married ho tu qus ky jawab do aur busssss
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    Quote Originally Posted by Good___Boy View Post
    wohi hua jiska ka mujhe khadsha tha.
    ha me married nahi but logo me tu betha hi hun. aura pak me masjid se le ke office me tu har jaga yehi topic hota ha. aur jab females ho tu phr tu zaahir ha. ditto yehi masla hota ha wife thandi ha aur me garam ya shauhar thanda ha aur me garam.

    1) agar feedback nahin chaihye apne bare me tu aap apni kahani na likho na, general baat likho.
    question ke jawab likho aur phr sirf jinhe jawab dena hoga wohi jawab hi aainge.
    agar uski shortcommings batara rahe ho tu apni bhi batao! aur agar apni kami nahi bata sakte tu sirf apna masla hi likho.
    yani ye bolo ke i have high sex drive instead of telling us that your wife is very cold ya apne kia kia nahi kia uske liye!
    Im not satisfied with her instead of she is not satisfying me!
    Im want oral lekin meri bivi ko nai pasand instead of 'me usko oral deta hun par wo mujhe nahi deti aur mene use buhut samjhaya etc etc'!
    etc.
    left wali me aap apni problem bata rahe ho jabke right wale me aap kisi aur ke uper responsibility shift kar rehe ho joke bari khatarnak psyche ha.

    2) isi tarhan agar koi larki bhi aati apne shauhar ki burayan karti aur one sided story lati tu me usko bhi isi tarhan ka jawab liktha.
    tu ye na samajhna ke im biased or whatever.

    i hope aap samaj gaye hoge me kya keh raha hun. if you demand objectivity and fairness, begin from yourself.

    Aap bohut jaldi judgmental aur jazbaati ho rahe hai. Aur bura nahi manaye ga meri BV ko aap jaise khudai fojdaari advocacy ki zaroorat nahin. Na hi main yahan prosecution prosecution khelne aaya hoon. Aapke kis comment ka jawab doon?

    Quote Originally Posted by Good___Boy View Post
    wohi hua jiska ka mujhe khadsha tha.
    ha me married nahi but logo me tu betha hi hun. aura pak me masjid se le ke office me tu har jaga yehi topic hota ha. aur jab females ho tu phr tu zaahir ha. ditto yehi masla hota ha wife thandi ha aur me garam ya shauhar thanda ha aur me garam.
    Bhai baat suno, mera saara din investment bankers, consultants, financial advisers, chartered accountants aur business men keh beech guzarta hai. Woh bhi achi khaasi high level par. Aur roz aaj kal ke dunyawi economics, real estate, politics, par bohot kuch sunta hoon to kiya main in sab mozooat par expert hoon? Nope! Main in subjects ko samajh to sakta hoon, inki gehri analysis dene ka claim nahi kar sakta.

    Toh agar tum married logon ke saath bethte ho to konsa teer maar lete ho? Pakistan ki masajid aur offices main yeh topic jis gehrai par hoga uska andaza har koi kar sakta hai.

    Sab se eham baat: Morality Police khelna bohot asaan he piyare, is per fatwa us par fatwa, jaanta wohi hai jiske sar par aayi hui hai. Tumhara kiya khayaal hai, choice badi clear hai? aapke mutabiq aapki khuwahishon ko control karo ya sooli pad chada do warna shaadi kiyoon ki? bada hi ajeeb dilemma pesh kar rahe hain! Yeh real life discussion hai, theoretical behas nahin. Yeh "agar main hotaaa to yeh karta woh karta" nahin balke "main is haal main hoon aur isko aise deal kar raha hoon" ka thread hai

    aakhri baat: Yeh ek sex forum hai. by definition aap yahan morality morality khelne nahin aaye. "normal" society ki nazar main aap utna hi ghalat kar rahe hain jitna main . Agar aapko mere jaise log bade hi bewafa aur ghalat lagte hain to by the same scale aap bhi aik ghalat kaam kar rahe hain jis se apke future par bura asar pade ga, is liye forum se chale jaaye. Ghlat logic hai na? Means aapki theory ghalat hai!

    Quote Originally Posted by Good___Boy View Post
    "agar feedback nahin chaihye apne bare me tu aap apni kahani na likho na, general baat likho.....left wali me aap apni problem bata rahe ho jabke right wale me aap kisi aur ke uper responsibility shift kar rehe ho joke bari khatarnak psyche ha"
    - Aapko itna personal attack nahin karna chahiye na hi itna sensitive hona chahiye... kiya forum par aapse ya kisi aur se puch kar likhna padta hai? Ya kaheen per bhi meri post par likha tha keh mere haal par feedback do? Khud hi misunderstand kar ke feedback aur analysis de rahe ho aur phir bhi zid kar rahe ho keh main iska mustahiq tha? Yaani maan na maan, me tera mehman? LOL!

    Quote Originally Posted by Good___Boy View Post
    "2) isi tarhan agar koi larki bhi aati apne shauhar ki burayan karti aur one sided story lati tu me usko bhi isi tarhan ka jawab liktha.
    tu ye na samajhna ke im biased or whatever."
    - Bias to aapne zaahir kar diya mere thread ke mozoo ko tod madod kar aur kha ma khuwah prosecutor ban kar. Main-ne buriyaan-achayaan bayaan karne ki thread nahi start ki thi. Na hi aapko ya kisi aur ko judgment pass karne ke liye Qaazi appoint kiya tha. Kiya tha kya? Aapko is disclaimer ki bhi koi khaas matlab nahi aur issi liye zaroorat nahi thi beherhal aap ne de hi diya.

    Meri kisi baat ka tumhe bura zaroor lage ga...iske liye muazrat chahta hoon, lekin aapki post kaafi aggresive thi, misunderstanding clear karne ke liye jawab zaroori tha.

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