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    Khawateen Kay Ahem Jinsi Mughalitey

    (Female Sexual Misconceptions)



    Mardon ki tarah aurtein bhi bohut sey jinsi maghaliton (sexual misconceptions) ka shikar hain jo inki azdwajii khushyion mein bohut bari rukawat sabit hote hain. Azdwajii khushyion kay liye khawateen ko na sirf apney bul kay mardon kay jinsi mughaliton ka zikar lya jaey (in mughaliton ka tafseeli zikar humari doosri kitab "Sex EducationůSab Kay Liye" mein mojood hai iss hawaley sey iss kitab ka muta'alla mufeed rahey ga) taa'hum khawateen kay chund ahem jinsi mughlitey kuch yun hain :

    1.
    Mahwaari ya haez (menses) amooman takleef deh cheez nahin aksar khawateen ki maahwaari bilkul normal hoti hai aur unhein koi khaas takleef nahin hoti albatta kuch khawateen maahwaari kay dauraan kamar dard, sar dard aur paet dard waghaera mehsoos karti hain, maahwaari ka aana kisi bhi larki kay liye kisi bhi tarah tashweesh ka baa'iss nahin hona chahiyie, larki ko ba'khoobi samajh lena chahiyie kay yeh ek fitri jismaani amal hai
    2.
    Mubashrat koi buri cheez nahin aur na hi yeh ek takleef deh amar hai agarcha ba'az khawateen ko ibtida mein chund baar mubashrat mein qadrey takleef hoti hai taa'hum baad mein yeh amal normal ho jata hai mubashrat ka amal na sirf naeki aur sadqa hai bul kay donon kay liye bohut hi pur lutf amal hai.
    3. Mubashrat mein aurat ka har baar Orgasm (intiha e lazzat) hasil karma zaroori nahin bohut si aurtein har baar orgasm hasil nahin kartiin magar unki azdwajii zindagi bohut khushgawar hoti hai.

    4. Jinsi lutf aur bachay ki paedaesh kay liye mubashrat mein donon mian biwi ka ba'yak waqt orgasm hasil karna zaroori nahin.

    5. Mardon ki tarah aurtein bhi fitri tor per sex sey lutf andoz hoti hain aut mard aisi aurat ko pasand kartey hain jo unn kay sath sex ko pasand karti hain.

    6. Kasrat e Mubashrat (frequent intercourse) aurat ki sehat kay liye nuqsan deh nahin chahey yeh kitni hi baar kyun na ki jaey, orgasm aurat ki sehat kay liye mufeed hai.

    7. Leucorrhea koi beemari nahin aur na hi iss ka ilaaj karane ki zaroorat hai albatta agar pani ka ikhraaj bohut zyada hoga, gaarha ya badboodaar ho to yeh amooman faraj (vagina) ki infection ki wajah sey hota hai.

    8. Mahwari (menses) bund honay per aurat ki jinsi khwahish khatam nahin ho jati bul kay aurat aakhri saans tak sex sey lutf andoz ho sakti hai.


    Shaadi

    (Marriage)

    Shaadi ki bunyaad do cheezein hain:

    1. Nasl e Insaani Ki Baqaa ( 2. Lutf o Sukoon
    Shaadi sey na sirf insaan ko sukoon naseeb hota hai bul kay mukhtalif tehqeeqaat sey ma'aloom hua hai kay shaadi shuda afraad ghaer shaadi shuda logon ki nisbat 50 % kam beemariyon ka shikar hotey hain.

    Shaadi ki do bari aqsaam hain:

    1. Mohabbat Ki Shaadi (Love Marriage)
    2. Khandaan Ki Taraf Se Taey Ki Gaee Shadi (Arranged Marriage)

    Europe aur America mein taqreeban har shaadi mohabbat ki shaadi hoti hai jo kay aksar auqaat nakaam hoti hain America mein talaq ki sharah 50% se 75% tak hai. Iss tarah ki talaq ki do bari wajoohaat hain
    Love Marriage - Arrange Marriage

    Shaadi sey pehley donon afraad apni shakhsiyat ka behetreen pehlu samney latey hain le'haza donon ek doosrey ki khoobiyon sey aagah hotey hain magar shaadi kay baad mehboob kay liye mushkil ho jata hai kay woh apni shakhsiyat ka sirf roshan pehlu hi samney laey iss liye kuch arsey ba'ad mehboob ki shakhsiyat kay taareek pehlu bhi samney aaney lagtey hain kyun kay mehboob ek insaan hai le'haza woh bhi aam insaanon ki tarah khoobiyon aur khamiyon ka majmoo'aa hota hai waisey bhi aankhon sey ishq ki patti utarney kay ba'ad mehboob ki ma'amooli khaamiya'n bhi numaya ho kar nazar aaney lagti hain iss tarah shaadi kay kuch arsey ba'ad mohabbat ka yeh taj mahal dharraam sey zamee'n bos ho jata hai.

    Doosri taraf khandaan ki taraf sey taey shuda shaadyion ki nakaami ki sharah bohut hi kam hai humarey apney bohut barey khandaan mein talaq ki sharah 3% sey zyada nahin magar iss tarah ki shaadiyon mein ek qabahat hai kay inn mein amooman larkey larkii ki pasand aur na pasand ka khayal nahin rakha jata hai . humarey haan ajeeb munafiqat hai, larkiyaan sara din bazaron mein bey parda phirti hain aur unko har koi dekhta hai magar jab mangetar larki ko dekhney ki khwahish ka izhar karey to amooman isey ghaer akhlaqi harkat qarar dey kar inkaar kar diya jata hai.


    Family Discipline - Khandaan Ka Nazm o Zabt

    Jadeed nafsiyat bhi ab iss usool ki ahmiyat ko tasleem karti hai yani hum amooman unn logon ko pasand kartey hain jo humari tarah hun khusoosun nasal, qaum, mua'ashi aur mua'asharti maqam kay lehaz sey zahir hai shaadi pasand kay logon kay sath hi ki jati hai. ***** ney mard ko aurton per qawam qarar diya hai. Qawam se muraad hai Provider Sustainer muhafiz, sarbarahkaar, sarbaraahi kay liye mard hi munasib hai., jo jismani lehaz se aurat se tawana hai, jo masa'il ko hul karney ki fitri salahiyat rakhta hai. Iss kay dimagh ka wazan ausatan aurat se 5 ounce zyada hai yani amooman mard jismani aur zehni lehaz se nisbatan afzal hai. Isi liye khandaan ki sarbaraahi isey sounpi gaii hai kay woh khandaan ko tahaffuz dey aur uski tamam zarooriyat ko poora karey aur khandaan ki kifalat karey lehaza ghar mein hukum bhi usi ka chaley ga.

    Iss paragraph ko parh kar ba'az taraqqi pasand khawateen kahein gi kay ghar per khawand ka hokum chalney ki baat mua'ashrey kay dhakosla hai, haala'n kay yeh aam usool hai kay jo kisi ki kifalat karey ga (ya tunkhwa'h dey ga) hukum bhi usi ka chaley ga, kya kabhi aisa hota hai kay kifalat karney wala apne mulazim ka hukum maaney.

    Suitable Age For Marriage

    Shaadi kay hawaley sey chund cheezon ko malhooz-e-khatir rakhna mufeed hoga aurat kay liye shaadi ki behetreen umar 20 ta 25 saal hai iss doran mein paeda honey wali aulaad sehat mand hoti hai, mard kay liye shaadi kay liye behtarin umar 25 ta 27 saal hai waise 30 saal tak bhi theek hai, behter yeh hai shaadi kay waqt aurat ki umar mard se 5 ta 10 saal choti ho kyun kay bachon ki paedaesh ki wajah sey aurat ka jism jald dhal jata hai jiski wajah sey aurat mein kashish kam ho jati hai, agar biwi ki umar kam hogi to uski jismani kashish zyada der tak barqaraar rahey gi. Waisey bhi aurat jismani aur zehni le'haz sey mard ki nisbat jald mature ho jati hai larki ki umar kisi bhi tarah larkey sey zyada nahin honi chahiyie.

    Mangni aur shaadi kay darmyan zyada lamba arsa nahin hona chahiyie, zyada sey zyada ek saal ka waqfa ho agar darmyani waqfa zyada lamba ho to donon khusoosan mard shadeed jhunjhalahat ka shikar ho jata hai. Shaadi ki date taey kartey waqt haez (menses) ka bhi zaroor dhayan rakha jaey aisa na ho kay shaadi kay ek aadh din baad maahwaari shuru ho jaey, iss sey khawand shadeed jismani tanau ka shikar hoga le'haza shaadi ki date maahwaari kay 8 din ba'ad ki rakhi jaey taa kay donon mian biwi mubashirat sey bharpoor lutf andoz ho sakein. Haez (menses) kay foran ba'ad aurat kay jinsi jazbaat amooman madh'dham par jatey hain inn dinon iski tabyat mein chirchira pan, afsurdagi aur bey chaeni paeda ho jati hai.

    Important Factors For Marriage

    Shaadi kartey waqt iss cheez ka bhi dhayan rakha jaey kay donon mian biwi kay qad chotey na hun aisi surat mein usool e wirasat kay mutabiq aksar bachon kay qad chotey honge jis ki wajah sey yeh bachay ehsaas e kamtari ka shikar ho jaengey aur bachiyon ki shadiyon mein masa'il paeda hongay, yani donon mein sey ek ka qad laziman lamba hona chahiyie. Iss tarah donon mian biwi kay rung bhi zyada sa'nwley nahin honey chiahiyien iss surat mein bhi usool-e-wirasat kay tehet aksar bachon kay rung sa'nwley hongey aur yeh becharey ehsaas-e-kamtari mein mubtala ho jaeingey mazeed bar aa'n larkiyon ki shaadi mein diqqat paesh aaegi chuna'ncha behter yahi hai kay mian biwi mein sey ek ka rung zaroor gora hona chahiyie.


    Mubashrat



    (Intercourse)

    Shaadi ki bunyad mubashrat hai magar humarey haan aksar log iss ki alif bay sey bhi waqif nahin yaqeen karein kuch logon ko to yeh bhi ma'aloom nahin kay mubashrat kahan hoti hai woh exact jagah konsi hai? Iss silsilay mein humari khawateen ki ma'aloomaat to na honey kay baraber hain jis ki wajah sey woh azdwajii zindagi sey bharpoor andaaz sey lutf andooz nahin hotiin bul kay aksar to shadeed jhunjhalahat (frustration) ka shikar hoti rehti hain. Humarey haan amooman mubashrat ko achi cheez nahin samjha jata jis ki wajah sey aksar khawateen jinsi amal mein bharpoor shirkat aur ta'awwun nahin kartiin nateejatan woh khud bhi aksar auqaat azdwajii lutf sey mehroom rehti hain aur khawand bhi bharpoor jinsi sukoon aur lutf hasil nahin kar pata.
    Aksar khawateen kay nazdeek mubashrat ek takleef deh cheez hai aur woh iss se khauf zada hoti hain chuna'ncha mubashrat kay iss khud saakhta khauf ki wajah se inn ka jism tann aur akar jata hai, khusoosan faraj (vagina) kay muscles tann jatey hain jis ki wajah se mubashrat ka amal takleef deh ho jata hai. Lekin agar biwi mubashrat kay doran apney jism, khusoosan faraj (vagina) kay paththo'n (muscles) ko bilkul dheela chor dey to amooman mubashrat mein takleef nahin hoti. Aam tor per shuru ki chund mubashraton mein kuch takleef hoti hai lekin yeh takleef bhi uss takleef sey kam hoti hai jo aurton ko zaiwar kay shoq main naak, kaan mein chaed karwaney sey hoti hai.
    Jinsi tayyari kay liye waqt kay le'haz sey bhi donon mein bohut difference (farq) hai mard jinsi amal kay liye jald tayyar ho jata hai, mard do teen minute kay jinsi ishti'aal sey manzil ho kar orgasm (intiha-e-lazzat) hasil kar leta hai, jab kay aurat ko orgasm hasil karne kay liye. Fitri tor per mard sey 10 guna zyada waqt ki zaroorat hai usey orgasm kay liye, 30 minute kay mohabbat kay khel (Foreplay) aur a'aza-e-makhsoosa (genitals) kay ishtia'al ki zaroorat hai. Mard aur aurat kay jinsi tajurbey bhi ek doosrey sey mukhtalif hotey hain mard bunyadi tor per jinsi haejaan ko kharij karna chahta hai jab kay aurat ka tajurba iss kay bilkul ulat hota hai aurat ko jinsi khushi uss waqt zyada mehsoos hoti hai jab uss kay jinsi haejaan mein aahista aahista izafa ho.

    Mian biwi ki sexual desires (jinsi khwahish) bhi ek jaisi nahin hoti kabhi mard mein kam aur aurat mein zyada hoti hai aur kabhi iss ka ulat hota hai iss tarah kabhi khawand mein jinsi khwahish (libido) zyada hoti hai aur kabhi biwi mein. Amooman mard ki sexual desires (jinsi khwahish) aurat ki nisbat kuch zyada aur shadeed hoti hai, usooli tor per mard ki jinsi khwahish aur dilchaspi 17 ta 19 saal ki umar mein urooj per hoti hai jab kay aurat kay jinsi urooj ki umar 25 ta 39 saal hai. Mard aur aurat ki jinsi khwahish aur dilchaspi mein tabdeeli aati rehti hai ba'az auqaat zehni daba'u aur zyada masroofiyat ki wajah sey mard ki sexual desires (libido) kam ho jati hai jab kay doosri taraf khawand ghar sey bahar pur kashish khawateen ko dekhta hai jiski wajah sey usey zyada jinsi angaekht ka samna karna parta hai iss surat mein uss kay jinsi jazbaat foran mushta'il ho jatey hain phir woh jinsi sukoon chahta hai.sliye zaroori hai kay biwi aisi soorat e haal mein khawand kay sath ta'awwun karey warna gunah gaar hogi.

    Ek survey mein ma'aloom hua kay 2/3 khawateen mardon ki nisbat mubashrat ki kam khwahish rakhti hain, Kinsey kay survey kay mutabiq shaadi kay shuru mein khawand biwi sey zyada mubashrat ki khwahish rakhta hai lekin darmiyani umar (35 -40) mein ulat yani iss umar mein aurat zyada jinsi khwahish rakhti hai. Hunt kay survey sey ma'aloom hua kay 5% aurton mein shadi kay ba'ad mubashrat ki khwahish nisbatan kam thi yani shaadi kay ibtida'ee dino'n mein iski jinsi khwahish kam thi magar Redook kay survey mein 33% biwiyon ney bataya kay unki khwahish thi kay woh mojooda haalat sey zyada mubashrat kartiin.

    Aksar mahireen ka khayal hai kay mard sex ko zyada ahmiat deta hai jab kay aurat romance ko magar ba'az doosrey mahireen ka khayal hai kay donon mubashrat chahtey hain yani donon jinsi khwahish kay hawale sey mukhtalif nahi, doosrey alfaz mein aurat bhi sex ko bohut pasand karti hai farq yeh hai kay aurat ko sex sey bharpoor lutf andoz honay kay liye kam az kam 20 ta 30 minute Foreplay (mohabbat kay khel) ki zaroorat hoti hai jab kay mard ko amooman sirf 2, 3 minute kay foreplay ki zaroorat hai aur ba'az ko koi zaroorat nahin, woh foran jinsi amal kay liye tayyar ho jatey hain ta'hum ek baat per saarey mahireen muttafiq hain kay mard bunyadi tor per mubashrat aur inzal chahta hai, woh mard jin ko bharpoor sex milti hai woh apni biwiyon ko bharpoor mohabbat detey hain kyun kay mard kay dil aur rooh ko kholney kay liye usey bharpoor sex ki zaroorat hai.

    Sexually Active Women - Jinsi Amal Mein Fa'aal Aurat

    Le'haza aurat ko bharpoor muhabbat hasil karney kay liye bharpoor sex muhayya karni hogi. Ghareloo jhagro'n ki ek bohut bari wajah aurat ka mard ko bharpoor sex ka muhayya na karna hai, mard unn aurton kay shaeda'ee hotey hain jo unko bharpoor sex deti hain aur kabhi inkaar nahin kartiin.

    Humarey haan taqreeban tamam biwia'n sexually active (jinsi amal mein fa'aal) kirdar ada nahin kartiin kabhi pehel nahin kartiin, jinsi amal kay doran woh ek zinda laash ki tarah bey hiss pari rehti hain jo kuch karna hota hai mard hi karta hai, khawateen to apney jinsi lutf ka izhaar bhi nahin kartiin. Aisi surat mein khawand manzil to ho jata hai magar sex sey lutfandoz nahin ho pata yani usko bharpoor sex nahin milti jiski wajah sey woh biwi ko bharpoor mohabbat nahin dey pata. Shayad khawateen ka khayal hai kay agar woh sexually active (jinsi fa'aal) hongi to khawand unko pasand nahin karey ga haqeeqat yeh hai kay aksar mard unn aurton ko pasand kartey hain jo jinsi amal mein fa'aal (sexually active) kirdaar ada karti hain aur khawand ko batati hain kay woh unkay sath sex sey lutf andoz hoti hain.

    Amooman khayal kya jata hai kay zyada mubashrat sehat kay liye nuqsan deh hai jab kay haqeeqat bilkul iss kay ulat hai, aurton mein jinsi hormones ki zyada miqdaar aurat ki haddiyon ko mazboot karti hai jo kay menopause mein patli ho jati hain aur inn kay tootney ka khatra barh jata hai, iss kay elawa Estrogen ki zyada miqdaar khawateen ko dil kay masa'il sey bhi bachati hai aur zindagi ko khushi ka ehsaas deti hai. Baqaeda sex ki wajah sey aurat san yaas (menopause) kay bohut sey masa'il sey buch jati hai jis ka tafseeli zikar "burhapa aur jinsi zindagi" waley baab mein aaey ga.

    Regular Sex And Hormones Level

    Doosri taraf regular sex mard kay liye bhi mufeed hai uska testosterone level bhi buland ho jata hai jo mard ki jinsi khwahish aur erection (tana'u) kay liye zaroori aur mufeed hai, iss ki wajah sey fard zyada taqatwer aur pur aetmaad mehsoos karta hai aur jinsi amal ko umar ki aakhri hudd tak jari rakh sakta hai. Yaad rahey kay jinsi khwahish aur tana'u ka ta'alluq jinsi hormone kay sath hai estrogen aur testosterone kay level ko barqaraar rakhney kay liye haftey mein 2 baar mubashrat mufeed aur zaroori hai. Research batati hai kay orgasm bunyadi tor per aurat ki sehat kay liye mufeed hai, waisey bhi jinsi amal sawab ka baa'iss hai phir iss sawab kay husool mein kanjoosi kyun? Ta'hum jinsi amal sirf mubaashirat nahin jinsi sukoon ko mubashrat kay elawa doosrey tareeqo'n sey bhi haasil kya ja sakta hai jis ka tafseeli zikr "jinsi sukoon kay matabadil tareeqey" waley hissey mein hoga.



    Female Physical Examination

    Jismani Muaina


    Female Genitals (A'aaza-e-makhsoosa) kay mufassil mua'ainey kay liey kam az kam 30 minute makhtus karein mua'aina uss waqt karein jab aap pur sukoon hun, apney kamrey mein chali jaei'n, kamrey mein aap akeli hun ander sey kundi laga lei'n taa kay koi aap ko disturb na kar sakey, apne neechey waley kaprey utar lei'n, saarey kaprey bhi utarey ja sakte hain, kamrey ka temperature munasib ho, na garmi ho na sardi, sareen (hips) kay bul farash per beth jaei'nTaangei'n aagey ko phela lei'n magar ghutney kharey hun taangei'n thori si khol lein aapka muunh roshni ki taraf ho bister per na bethei'n woh narm hota hai jis ki wajah sey fard neechey ko dhuns jata hai jis ki wajah sey sahi mua'aina nahin ho sakey ga. Mua'ainey kay waqt ek aainey ko Female Genital organs (a'aaza e makhsoosa) kay bilkul samney rakh kar unka sarsari jaeza laein phir ek hath mein torch pakrein aur doosre hath se a'aaza-e-makhsoosa kay baerooni labon ko kholein to iss kay neechey aapko surkh rang kay androoni lab nazar aaeingey, inka ba'ghor jaeza lein ooper ki taraf jahan androoni lab miltey hain wahan aap ko ek dana sa nazar aaega jo kay aap ka bazer (clitoris) hai. Iss kay ooper topi si hoti hai agar aap apni zubaan ko baher nikal kar us sey apni thori ko chooney ki koshish karein to zubaan neechey latak jaegi iss tarah bazer neechey ko latak raha hota hai iss ka kuch hissa jism kay ander aur kuch bahar hota hai. Iss sey taqreeban ek inch neechey peeshaab ki naali ka suraakh hota hai, iss sey bhi neechay faraj (vagina) hoti hai, bilkul neechey magar labon kay baher maq'ad (anus) hoti hai. Itminaan kay sath inn sab a'aazaa ka achi tarah mua'aina karein kay konsi cheez kahan hai taa kay mubashrat kay waqt aap dakhool mein khawand ki rehnumaee aur madad kar sakein. Kahin aisa na ho kay khawand mubashrat kay waqt koi ghalti kar bethey.






    Jinsi Le'haz Sey Hassas Hissey

    Erogenous Zones

    Waisey to aurat aur mard ka tamam jism hi erogenous zones (jinsi le'haz sey hassas)hota hai magar kuch maqamaat doosro'n sey nisbatan zyada hassas hotey hain jinsi lutf kay liye ek doosrey kay hassas hisso'n sey aagahi hasil karna bohut zaroori hai.



    Jinsi Le'haz Sey Aurat Kay Hassas Hissey

    (Female Erogenous Zones)



    Bazer (Clitoris) Maahireen kay mutabiq aurat kay jism ka hassas tareen hissa uska bazer hai taa'hum kuch aurton ki faraj (vagina) zyada hassas hoti hai, bazer aurat kay a'aaza-e-makhsoosa kay ooper waley hissey mein jahan inner labias (androoni lub) miltey hain mojood hota hai yeh murghi ki kalghi ya matar kay daaney jaisa hota hai iss ka size amooman 1/ 4 ta 1/5 inch hota hai taa'hum iss ka size chota, bara ho sakta hai, bazer ko aurat ki taa'ngein khol kar aasani kay sath dekha ja sakta hai, achi tarah dekhney kay liye iss

    G Spot - Female Erogenous Zones

    Bazer (Clitoris) ko mushta'il karney sey aurat laaziman jinsi urooj hasil kar leti hai, yeh jinsi ishtia'al mein akarr jata hai magar jinsi ishtia'al kay urooj aur orgasm kay ba'ad sukarr jata hai. Bazer ka jinsi lutf kay elawa aur koi maqsad nahin chu'n kay yah faraj sey kafi duur taqreeban derh inch (1.5inch) kay faasley per hota hai jis ki wajah sey aam haalaat mein mubashrat kay doran zakar (penis) iss ko touch nahin karta isey amooman ungli sey hi chuna aur mushta'il karna parta hai, bazer ko chuna faraj kay chuney sey zyada lutf angaez hota hai. Aurat kay jinsi urooj kay ba'ad yeh zyada hassas ho jata hai phir aurat ko isey chuna napasand hota hai, chuney sey usey takleef hoti hai, taa'hum iski hassasiyat badalti rehti hai. Iska sab sey hassas hissa iska ooper wala hota hai agarchae iss kay pehlu (sides) bhi bohut hassas hotey hain.



    G Spot Bazer kay ba'ad aurat ka doosra jinsi hissa g spot kehlata hai, iss ko ek german doctor Grafen Berg ney 1950 mein daryaaft kya aur ab yeh usi kay naam sey mosoom hai. Agar aurat muu'nh aasman ki taraf kar kay laet jaey to yeh maqam uski faraj kay ek do inch ander faraj ki ooper wali deewar mein hota hai. G spot ko mushta'il karne sey aurat zabardast orgasm hasil karti hai magar yeh orgasm khud lazzati (Masturbation) aur dakhool yani mubashrat kay orgasm sey mukhtalif hota hai magar bohut lutf angaez. Yeh amooman chotey lobia (kidney bean) ki shakal ka hota hai magar ragarney sey mushta'il ho kar dugna ho jata hai taa'hum har aurat kay G spot kay size aur maqam mein farq hota hai G spot mushta'il karne sey aurat ko jhatka lagta hai, jagah sooj jati hai

    G Spot Location

    Aur aurat ko peeshaab ki khwahish mehsoos hoti hai le'haza isey mushta'il karney sey pehley aurat ko peeshaab kar lena chahiyie taa'hum agar ishti'aal jari rahey to 2 ta 20 minutes kay massage kay ba'ad aurat ko jinsi lutf mehsoos honay lagta hai. G spot stimulation sey 54% aurtein paani kharij karti hain aur 14% humesha ikhraj karti hain, yeh ikhraj bey rung hota hai taa'hum ikhraj ya baghaer ikhraj kay orgasm kay lutf mein ma'amooli farq hota hai ek survey mein 80% khawateen ney isey jinsi le'haz sey bohut hassas hissa qarar diya. Ek aur survey mein 66% aurton ney bataya kay unn ko iss jagah ka ilm hai, humarey haan 99.9% log g spot sey aagah nahin. Dr. Davidson aur uss kay saathiyo'n ka khayal hai kay har aurat g spot rakhti hai aur ikhraj ki ahel hai magar ikhraj amooman doosrey ya teesrey orgasm mein hasil hota hai. Yaad rahey kay aurat ek hi waqt mein ek sey zyada orgasm hasil kar sakti hai. Mubashrat mein g spot tak pohonchney kay liye aagey peechey (rear entry) yani Doggy Style zyada munasib hai jab kay ba'az khawateen khawand kay zakar ko g spot per ragarr sakti hain.

    Apney g spot ko talaash karney kay liye aap apni faraj mein ghari (clock) ka tasawwur karein iss kay 12 bajay naaf per tasawwur karein aur g spot 11 bajay aur 1 bajay kay darmyaan hoga iss ki talaash kay liye apni ungliya'n faraj mein daakhil kar kay iss maqam ko ungliyo'n sey daei'n (right), baei'n (left) zor zor sey ragrei'n woh jagah sooj jaey gi, aapko peeshaab ki khwakish mehsoos hogi magar aap rub karti jaei'n hatta kay aap orgasm hasil karlein gi agar ragarrna jari rakhein gi to ek sey zyada orgasm aur ikhraj hasil kar sakti hain
    Female Erogenous Zones

    Faraj (Vagina)

    Aurat ka teesra hassas hissa uski faraj hai sari faraj hassas nahin hoti bul kay sirf iska baerooni teesra hissa 1 ta 1.5 inch hassas hota hai ba'az aurton kay faraj kay muu'nh (entrance) ki bajaey uski dae'n aur bae'n atraaf zyada hassas hoti hain.



    Lub (Labias)

    Aurat ki andaam-e-nihaani kay lub bhi bohut hassas hotey hain, baerooni lub jin per baal hotey hain kam aur androoni surkh lub zyada hassas hotey hain ba'az auqaat androoni lubo'n kay ishtia'al sey bhi aurat orgasm hasil kar leti hai.



    Pistaan (Breasts)

    Aurat kay pistaan bhi jinsi tor per bohut hassas hotey hain yani aurtein (1%) sirf inn kay ishti'aal sey bhi orgasm hasil karleti hain. Pistan chotey, barey ho saktey hain magar inn kay size ka aurat ki jinsi hassasiyat sey koi ta'alluq nahin. Choti chaatiya'n zyada aur bari kum hassas ho sakti hain. Pistaan dekhney mein bhi jinsi tor per bohut purkashish hotey hain, inn ka sab sey hassas hissa inn kay nipples hotey hain. Bohut si aurton kay nipples aur andaam-e-nihaani ka bila wasta ta'alluq hota hai chuna'ncha nipples ko mushta'il karna dar'asal vulva ko mushta'il karna hai. Jinsi haejaan mein nipples tunn jatey hain magar doodh pilaney wali aurton mein aisa nahin hota. Ek dilchusp baat yeh hai kay ek nipple nisbatan zyada hassas hota hai, aurat ko iss cheez ka ilm hona chahiyie taa'kay woh jinsi lutf kay liye apney khawand ko bata sakey.


    Sareen (Buttocks)

    Pistaan kay ba'ad aurat kay sareen bhi kafi hassas hotey hain inn ko chaerna aur mushta'il karna aurat ko pasand hai yeh dekhney mein bhi khoobsoorat lagtey hain bohut sey mard sirf inn ko dekh kar jinsi tor per mushta'il hojatey hain



    Doosrey Hassas Hissey

    Naaf kay neechey aur andaam-e-nihaani kay lubo'n kay ooper baalo'n wala hissa bhi bohut hassas hota hai, isi tarah paet khusoosan paet ki bae'n taraf naaf aur naaf kay neechey wala hissa bhi kafi hassas hai iss kay elawa faraj aur maq'ad (anus) kay darmyan wala hissa jinsi tor per bohut hassas hai, khud maq'ad kay ird gird kay hissey ko mushta'il karna bhi bohut si aurton ko pasand hai.



    Jinsi Le'haz Sey Yeh Hissey Bhi Hassas Hain

    Raane'in, khusoosan unka androoni hissa, baazu aur unka androoni hissa, gaal, haunt (lips), zubaan, muu'nh ka androoni hissa, baghal, kamar, gardan aur iska pichla aur bae'n taraf ka hissa, gala, kaan ki laue'en, kaan ka pichla hissa, ghutno'n ka pichla hissa, haatho'n ki ungliyo'n ki paurei'n, pao'n ka angootha aur jild waghaera.



    Taaza Tareen Research

    Taaza tareen research mein maahireen ney do hassas maqamaat ki nishan dahi ki hai U spot yani peeshaab ki naali ka agla sooraakh (urethral opening) X spot yani bachcha daani ka muu'nh (cervix).



    Male Genitalia

    Jinsi Le'haz Se Mardo'n Kay Hassas Hissey (Male Genitalia)

    Mardo'n ka sab sey hassas hissa uska zakar (penis) khusoosan zakar ka agla hissa yani hashfa (glans) jisey zakar ki topi bhi kaha jata hai. Hashfa ka charo'n taraf wala hissa yani us kay kinarey hashfa sey bhi zyada hassas hain. Iss tarah hashfa kay neechey wali jhilli jo hashfa aur zakar ki shaft ko milati hai bhi bohut hassas hoti hai, zakar ka sooraakh bhi bohut hassas hai.

    Zakar kay ba'ad mard kay khusyay (testicles) aur khusyon aur maq'ad kay darmyan wali jagah bhi jinsi tor per bohut hassas hai, maq'ad khud bhi bohut hassas hai, maq'ad kay ird gird ka hissa bhi kafi hassas hai. Prostate ko mardana G spot kaha jata hai. Iss ko bila wasta nahin chuaa ja sakta, isko chuney kay liye maq'ad kay ander ungli daakhil karni parti hai ya phir baher sey chuuney kay liye khusyon aur maq'ad kay darmyan wali jagah ko zor sey dabaya jata hai. Iss kay elawa mard kay kaan, muu'nh, gardan, kandha khusoosan baaya'n kandha, collar bone kay neechey wali jagah, nipples, naaf, reerrh ki haddi ka nichla hissa, raano'n ka androoni hissa, hath aur pao'n kay talwey aur pao'n kay angoothey waghaera bhi jinsi tor per kafi hassas hain.

    Mian biwi ko shaadi kay ibtida'ee dino'n mein hi ek doosrey kay jinsi le'haz sey hassas hisson sey aagahi hasil kar leni chahiyie. Iss silsiley mein khul kar baat ki jaey chu'n kay aurat ko jinsi urooj tak pohonchney kay liye mard ki nisbat bohut zyada waqt ki zaroorat hai lekin agar khawand iss kay hassas tareen hisson ko mushta'il karey to woh bhi jald orgasm hasil kar legi.

    Exploring Female Body

    Iss kay liye zaroori hai kay aurat apney poorey jism ko mukhtalif andaaz sey explore karey maslan chuuna, sehlaana, thapthapana, bheenchna, kaatna, masaj karna, chuumna, chaatna waghaera aur janey kay uska konsa hissa kis tarah jinsi tor per jald mushta'il hota hai aur phir apney mian ko bataey kay woh usey kis tarah mushta'il karey taa kay woh bhi jald orgasm hasil karley.

    Doosra tareeqa yeh hai kay khawand biwi kay saarey jism ko mukhtalif tarah sey explore karey maslan chuu'ey, sehlaaey, thapthapaey, bheenchey, kaatey, masaj karey, chuumey, chaatey waghaera iss doran biwi apni poori tawajja apney ehsaasaat per markooz karey aur mian ko bataey kay woh uss kay kis hissey ko kis tarah mushta'il karey. Usey bataey kay usey kya karna acha lagta hai, phir jab mian wahi kuch karey ga to woh azdawajii khushyo'n sey bharpoor lutf uthaey gii. Mahireen ka khayal hai kay bharpoor azdwajii khushyo'n kay liye khawand ka biwi kay jism ko dekhna aur jan'na bohut zaroori hai.



    Biwi Ka Apney Jism Ka Jan'na

    Iss mashq kay liye 30 minute sey ley kar 60 minute ek haftey kay liye rozana mukhtas karein, koshish karein kay iss doran koi aap ko disturb na karey apney kamrey mein chali jaein, kamrey ka temperature normal ho, na garmi ho na sardi, apney saarey kaprey bhi utaar lein. Ek barey aaeiney kay saamney kharey ho kar apney jism ka achi tarah jaeza lein, mukhtalif hisso'n ko dekhei'n kay kaisey lag rahey hain, apney khawand ki nazar sey dekhei'n, 10 minute kay ba'ad apney sarey jism per ungliya'n phaerein aur note karein kay kaisa lagta hai


    Exploring Female Body

    Chuuney kay andaaz ko badlei'n kabhi halka kabhi sukht, kabhi taez aur kabhi sust, apni ungliya'n apney baazou'n, taango'n aur paet waghaera per pherein, saari jild per haath phaerei'n, raano'n ki androoni janib ki jild aur pao'n kay talwo'n ka mawazna karei'n, isi tarah hont (lips), kaan, seena, sareen waghaera ki hiss ka mawazna karein. Jism ko iss tarah chuuei'n kay lutf andoz hun, jism kay mukhtalif hisso'n ko sehlaei'n, thapthapei'n, bheenchei'n, massage karein, chuumein waghaera maslan pistaan per mukhtalif andaaz sey haath phaerei'n. Donon haathon sey unko bheenchei'n, hutheli sey masaj karein, nipples kay gird ungliya'n phaerei'n, angoothey aur ungli sey nipples ko muslei'n, dabaei'n, aur unn kay ehsaasaat kay farq ko note karti jaaei'n. Iss tarah koolho'n pe haath pherei'n, unko alag alag haatho'n mein pakrei'n, zor sey bheenchei'n, unn per zarb lagaei'n, thappar aur mukkey maarei'n, unn donon kay darmiyan ungli phaerei'n aur mukhtalif ehsaasaat ko note karei'n, note karein kay aap ko kya acha laga. Naaf key neechey waley hissey, jahan baal hotey hain (pubic area) ko mukhtalif andaz sey mushta'il karein, narm aur sukht haath phaerei'n, iss hissey ko aata goondhnei'n ki tarah zor sey dabaei'n, isey haath mein pakar kar bheenchei'n. Ab andaam e nihanee ki taraf aa jaei'n, ooper waley hissey mein jahan baerooni lub miltey hain, bazer kay ooper waley hissey ko dabaei'n, bheenchei'n, ehsaasaat kay farq ko note karein.

    Ab sareen kay bul farash per beth jaei'n, farash thunda na ho, pao'n farash per hun, ghutney uthey huey aur taangei'n khuli hui, pehley aaeney ki madad sey aa'aza-e-makhsoosa ka jaeza lein phir chikni ungli sey baerooni lubo'n ko aur phir androoni lubo'n ko mukhtalif andaaz sey chuei'n, cherei'n, daei'n aur baei'n donon taraf kay lubo'n kay ehsaasaat ka mawazna karein. Faraj kay ander do ungliya'n daal kar g spot ko talash karein.

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    achi advice ha.
    me sirf ye kehn hahuga ke sex enjoy karne ke liye dono partner ki darmiyan ommunication bari important ha. humari han larkia ko dabaya jata ha isliye wo kuch bolti nahi ke unhe kia pasand ha. is se bari confusion hoti ha. girls ko chaihiye ke wo apne partner ko batain ke unhe kia cheez pasand ha bajai apni khuwahishtaat ko dabane ke. isi tarhan boys ko chiahiye ka wo girls ki khushi ka bhi khayal kare. lekin is sab ke liye achi communication lazmi ha.
    Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand

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    Parveen zafar sahiba ne bhut achi post ke hey.

    Mr.Good boy ne bhi kafi achy mushwary dey hein.

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    Clitoral Sensation - Bazer Ki Hassasiyat


    Faraj (Vagina) kay daei'n baei'n hisso'n kay ehsaasaat ko check karein ab bazer per mutawajja hun, pehley iss ki shaft ko mukhtalif andaaz sey har taraf chuei'n, mushta'il karein aur ehsaasaat kay farq ko note karein mumkin hai kay daei'n hath wali aurat kay clitoris ka daaya'n hissa baei'n hissey sey 10 guna zyada hassas ho ab bazer (clitoral) kay tip ki taraf aaei'n iss ki topi ko ek taraf kar kay iss ko mukhtalif andaaz sey mushta'il karein kabhi aahista kabhi taez, kabhi kuch narmi sey kabhi zor aur sukhti sey bazer kay mukhtalif hisso'n ka masaj karein, neechey bunyaad sey ley kar ooper choti tak aur phir ehsaasaat kay farq ko note karein, aksar aurto'n ki tip zyada hassas hoti hai, aap apni sensations (hassasiyat) janei'n. Iss tarah sarey jism kay hassas hisso'n ki hassasiyat kay farq ko note karein aur janei'n kay aap ko kis hissey ko kis andaaz sey mushta'il karna zyada lutf deta hai. Ek haftey ki mushq kay ba'ad aap jaan leingi kay aap kay kis hissey ko kis tarah mushta'il kya jaey kay aap jald jinsi urooj ya orgasm hasil kar lein. Iss mashq kay doran aap bohut si dilchusp daryaaftei'n kareingi taa hum jinsi ehsaasaat kay le'haz sey har aurat doosri sey mukhtalif hai, ba'az auqaat to ek hi aurat kay jism kay mukhtalif hisso'n ki sensation (hassasiyat) badalti rehti hai maslan aaj bazer ki daei'n taraf zyada hassas hai to kal baei'n taraf zyada hassas hogi, apney in mukhtalif ehsaasaat ka achi tarah tajurba karei'n aur inko note karlein, phir apney khawand ko bataein taa kay woh aap ki azdawaji zindagi ko zyada khushgawar bana sakey. Iss tarah aap apney khawand kay bhi mukhtalif hisso'n khusoosan zakar (penis) kay mukhtalif hisso'n, khasyo'n aur khasyo'n aur maq'ad kay darmyaan wali jagah ko mukhtalif andaaz sey mushta'il karein aur poochein kay usey kya acha laga, yeh jaan kar aap usko bhi bharpoor jinsi lutf muhayya kar sakein gi.

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    wooow boht ache jee
    boht use full post hai dear prveeen
    prveen is a old name i think app anti ho gi .....

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    Intercourse Tips

    Mubashrat Kay Aadaab

    Saamaan:

    Baghaer baazu wali kursi, cushion wali sukht bister, sukht mattress, do takyay sukht mubashrat kay waqt kamar kay neechey rakhney kay liye, do narm soney kay liye, chiknaahat koi achi cold cream paani mein hul honey wali jelly, badaam, coconut ya zaetun ka oil, Vaseline aur petroleum jelly hargiz istimaal na karein. Yeh faraj mein ja kar jum jati hai jis sey infection ka khatra hota hai. Safaee kay teen kaprey hun ek mota aur bara neechey bichaney kay liye, baqi do mia'n biwi kay liye.

    Jinsi amal kay liye baqa'eda tayyari ki jaey, khawand jald ghar aa jaey, biwi bhi jald kam khatam kar ley, bacho'n ko sula dey, mia'n biwi thakey huey na hun jismani aur zehni tor per pur sukoon hun khauf, pareshaani aur thakawat waghaera main mubashrat na ki jaey iss surat mein fard bharpoor lutf andoz nahin hota. Iss sham khana kam aur jald kha liya jaey, ghiza zood hazam ho yani mubashrat kay waqt paet bhara hua na ho. Kamra aisa ho jahan sey aawazei'n doosrey kamro'n tak na pohonch sakein mubashrat kay doran fard jinsi haejaan mein aawazei'n nikalta hai, naey shaadi shuda couple mein iss ka khauf hota hai kay inn ki aawazei'n log na sun lein yeh khauf unn kay jazbaat ko sard kar deta hai iss surat mein halka phulka music lagaya ja sakta hai taa kay aawazei'n kamrey sey baher na jaein. Kamrey ka temperature munasib ho na garmi ho na sardi yani jagah pur sukoon ho, shor o ghul aur madaakhlat sey mehfooz, phone utaar dei'n warna phone ki ghanti aap kay jazbaat ko ek dum sard kar degi. Donon mia'n biwi kay jism saaf suthrey aur har qism ki buu se paak hun, behter hai kay sham ko ghusal kar liya jaey, agar bathroom bedroom kay sath ho to mubashrat sey ek ghanta pehley donon ikaththey ek doosrey ko ghusal dein maqsad mael utaarna nahin bul kay ek doosrey kay lums sey lutf andooz hona hai, brush kar liya jaey taa kay muu'nh sey budbuu(smell) na aaey.

    . Kamrey ka mahol (environment) romantic bana lein roshni madhdham ho agar rangeen ho to aur bhi acha hai, mom batti ki roshni mahol ko bohut saher angaez bana deti hai iss ki roshni mein aurat ka jism zyada khoobsurat dikhaee deta hai, air freshner ka istimal karein khushboo aap donon ki pasand ki ho.

    Shaadi per itna khurch kartey hain to kuch khurch apney bister per zaroor karein bister kushaada ho yani double bed ho taa kay harkat mein aasani ho gaddey bohut zyada narm na hun zyada narm bister per jism ander ko dhuns jata hai jis ki wajah sey harkat karney mein dushwari hoti hai. Bister sey charcharahat ki aawazei'n nahin aani chahiyie'n bister ki chadarei'n khush rung, shokh aur nihayat mulaem hun masaln satin aur silk waghaera ki, cotton aur khurduri chaderei'n sara maza kharab kar deti hain. Mumkin ho to farash per qaleen ya moti dari bichi ho taa kay kabhi kabhar change kay liye neechey mubashrat ki ja sakey, khwab gaah mein ek adad bara aaena bhi ho taa kay wahan aap apna bana o singhaar check kar sakein.

    Mard chu'n kay bunyadi tor per bazarya basaarat yani kisi cheez ko dekh kar jinsi tor per mushta'il hota hai le'haza aap ka libaas khush rung, mulaem aur silky ho libaas ki banawat aisi ho kay aap kay khoobsurat a'azaa'a maslan chaati waghaera zyada numaya'n aur pur kashish mehsoos hun. Libas ka rung khawand ki pasand ka ho iss tarah jun'hi khawand aap ko dekhey ga us kay jazbaat bharak uthei'n gey aur jab woh narm libaas kay ooper sey aap kay jism per haath phaerey ga to us kay jazbaat mein aag lag jaegi. Iss kay sath khawand ki pasand ki khushboo bhi istimaal karein siwaey galey kay locket kay baaqi zaewraat utaar dein.
    Khawand ki pasand kay mutabiq halka sa make up karein amooman mardo'n ko zyada make up pasand nahin hota iss silsiley main aap khawand sey pooh sakti hain kay usko kya acha lagta hai. Humarey haan ajeeb sitam zareefi hai kay shuru mein to biwiya'n inn cheezo'n ka khayal karti hain magar chund baras guzar janey kay ba'ad wo libaas aur jismaani safaee ka khayal nahin rakhtii'n, ghar mein aksar auqaat unn kay kaprey gandey hotey hain, haatho'n sey pyaz aur adrak ki buu aa rahi hoti hai, jism paseena ki buu sey labraez hota hai yah sab cheezein mard kay jinsi jazbaat ko sard karney kay liye kafi hoti hain. Aurat iss rawayye ki wajah sey apni kashish kho deti hai magar yehi aurtein jab bazaar jaeingi to naha dho kar ban sanwar kar jaeingi haala'n kay aurat ki shakal o surat, libaas aur jism ko humesha khawand kay liye pur kashish hona chahiyie. Iss kay liye aurat ko sha'oori koshish karni chahiyie

    Mubashrat sey pehley ek doosrey kay kaprey utaarna bhi ek lutf angaez marhala hai le'haza aurat ka izarbund aur bra kay hook iss qism kay hun jisey khawand aasani sey khol sakey warna ba'surat e deegar izarband aur bra ko utartey utartey uss kay jazbaat sard parjaeingey.

    Mubashrat faraj (vagina) mein ho gi aurat ka khayal hota hai kay mard ko ilm hota hai kay zakar kab daakhil karna hai jab kay mard ko ilm nahin hota le'haza jab aurat kay jinsi jazbaat urooj per hun to woh mia'n ko daakhil karney ka ishara karey iss kay sath hi dakhool mein mia'n ko madad karey taa kay khawand ko dakhool mein diqqat na ho. Iss kay liye aurat penis (zakar) ko hath sey pakar kay vagina (faraj) mein daakhil kar sakti hai ya apney donon labias (lub) achi tarah khol dey taa kay khawand zakar ko aasani kay sath daakhil kar sakey humarey haan chu'n kay biwiyio'n ko iss baat ka ilm nahin le'haza woh dakhool mein khawand ki rehnumaee nahin kartiin jis ki wajah sey bohut sey khawand rehnumaee ki adum mojoodgee mein aasani sey dakhool nahin kar patey aur iss koshish mein baher hi manzil ho jatey hain yeh cheez biwi kay liye shadeed frustration aur khawand kay liye sharmindagi ka baa'iss hoti hai.

    Mahireen ka khayal hai kay jab tak aap donon kay liye jinsi amal sey lutf andoz honey kay liye kafi waqt na ho iss ki koshish na ki jaey, iss kay liye aap kay pass kam az kam ek ghantey ka waqt ho tub aap foreplay (mohabbat kay khel) aur intercourse (mubashrat) sey bharpoor andaaz mein lutfandooz hosakein gi. Aurat ko to jinsi amal kay liye tayyar honey mein hi aadha ghanta lag jata hai.
    Ek mubashrat kay foran ba'ad agar doosri baar mubashrat karni ho to afzal yeh hai kay ghusl kar liya jaey ya phir wuzu kar liya jaey, tayummum bhi kya jasakta hai. Ya sirf a'aaza e makhsoosa (genitalia) ko dho liya jaey aur ghusl subah kar liya jaey lekin kuch khaney sey pehley wuzu karna sunnat hai.

    Jun'hi khawand ka zakar biwi ki faraj mein daakhil ho jaey to donon per ghusl wajib ho jata hai chahey khawand manzil ho ya na ho.


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